Archive for December, 2005

Nitin GR (Software Engg.)

Posted: December 13, 2005 in Life, Me, Thoughts

Got this forward today. It was way too good and I wanted to blog this. Dono when we would be on the other side of the window staring down at the little girl outside!

” It was raining heavily outside. Dark clouds gathered in the sky and nature was in its ominous best. I took a break from my work and went to the pantry to grab a cup of coffee. I had a sip and went near the window to see the rain pouring down heavily outside the glass structure. I was inside our huge office building, unruffled by even the fierceness of the nature. Through the heavy transparent glass, I could see a small girl trying to hold on to her umbrella which the wind was snatching away from her. I felt sorry for the girl, and was happy that I was not in a similar pathetic situation. Yes. I take pride for the fact that I am a software engineer. . I have everything which a common man would envy; money, status, respect, you name it I have it. I always wanted to be software professional and here I am, working for one of the best firms in the world. But then, am I really happy? Now, I could see an imprint of my palm on the other glass window, through which I reminisced my past, basked in the warmth of the sun shine.

My childhood was so much of fun. I vividly remember those rainy days, when I hugged my mother tightly during sleeping listening to all the stories told by her. Now, I have a big house here, but then it is just a house, not a home. My parents are pretty far away from me now. I have a cell phone to talk to them everyday, but then I really miss those dinners which I had with my family everyday. I could easily afford to taste all the different cuisines these days, but the best of food there, lack the love and affection which is present in the food prepared by my mother.

I threw a lavish party for my colleagues for my birthday, but then they would never replace the birthdays when my friends secretly brought a cake and at the end, half of the cake would have ended up on my face. The couple of hundred bucks that u save for a long period just to give a treat to your friends in the road side chat shop can never give the pleasure even after spending a few thousand bucks these days.

The scene of me crying and refusing to have dinner on the day when I fought with my best friend came to my mind. Today, she has gone far away from me, taking away my love and with it my life, but I am sitting and coding here with a false smile on my face. Everyday I meet new people, but then I long ceased to make a new friend.

It’s true that I have a lot of things now. I have a nice bed, but no time to sleep. Lots of money, but no friends to spend it with. The latest designer clothes, but a worn out body. Quite a few to flirt, but no one to love. Awards for technical excellence, but no reward for the crave for peaceful ambience. A confident demeanor, but a reluctant and apathetic mind. Full of rain, but no sunshine even in the farthest distance.

Now, I could see the small girl on the road enjoying in the rain with her umbrella firmly in her grip. She might not have all the comforts which I have, but then she has the innocence and fun which I lost a long time back. I have decided to come out of this false fantasy, even if it is at the expense of losing the tap of the software engineer. I am going to again enjoy my life. I am going to go out in the rain and play with the small kid now. I removed my tie, and went near my computer to shut it down. Just then, I saw a new mail alert in my mail box. I slowly opened outlook and I found a message from my manager with an attachment saying that there was a critical defect in the code and I have to fix it soon. I convinced myself that I am not going to get bogged down again by these pressures and stick to my decision. I ignored the mail and went to the rest room. After a couple of minutes, the software engineer in me came out, his shirt tucked in with the perfect tie knot, sat before the computer, and started typing. “

I wana go home :(

Posted: December 6, 2005 in Life, Me, Mumbai, Thoughts

December 6, 2005 and I am still in Mumbai. Never thought it will last so long. This is the longest I have ever stayed away from home and family. Though it was a great experience staying away and enjoying myself, I have had enough.

I really wana go back home 😦

Happy Birthday

Posted: December 6, 2005 in Thoughts

Today is Shweta’s Bday.

Shez one of the sweetest girl I have ever met 🙂

Happy bday Swe

The new look I wear

Posted: December 5, 2005 in Life, Me

This Friday, I was standing in front of the mirror with my razor. Looked into the mirror and told myself, “Since how long has the look on that face changed?”. That’s when I decided I should try something new. Now, if you see me around, you will notice one thing missing from my face. Could you guess what ??? I guess you would have guessed by now. Anyways let me tell you what it is. You wont see that mush I had on my face now 😉 .

Now if you take that grin out off you face, I should tell you, I have got quite a good feedback on my new looks. About 80% of the people who have seen me say that this look suits me.

Some of the notable comments I have got:

You look 2 years younger …

What were you thinking …

Are you alright today?

Waise hi rehene de, Accha lag raha hain

Whatever anyone says, this look is here to stay for a while 🙂 . But one thing that everyone will agree is that I look way too different without the mush. It took a while to take in the fact that I am looking at myself in the mirror!

So don’t be surprised the next time you see me!